¬Roll-off: to appear as if you're leaving, used as a DHV
¬4-set: group of 4 women
¬canned opener: a memorized phrase used to open conversation with beautiful women
¬FTC (false time constraint): phrase used to show you are leaving any moment. Best tool when used properly as a DHV and to increase social value.
Went out sarging, with no wing man as he was already at a target's house.
Walmart: Went looking for an old female pal to reduce approach anxiety. Had a conversation with her about really nothing other than my new job. On my way out I spotted a 4-set. As I approached them I took about 3 steps past them before opening the set, of course speaking over my shoulder.
"I have to leave in a minute to meet up with a couple of buddies at Buffalo Wild Wings (this was my FTC), but let me ask you something". "My buddy is going on a radio show monday morning (being friends with someone on the radio is a DHV), for a secret admirer reveal contest. He is nervous as he has no clue who this is, and it could be anyone from a hot girl to a guy, or even a relative. Would you guys go on the show?"
¬Opinion, open ended questions work best.
Immediatly they were all interested, and the first one to speak up was my target, who I ignored to make eye contact with other girls and get their opinions. (ignoring a girl makes her want you even more). I kept stacking talking about how exciting my job is etc...
One of the girls in the set recognized me from an old job, to which I added a story about how I was in charge of several kiosks throughout the region (being in control of something, specially something related to a global corporation is a great DHV). The entire time I was in a talkative state to avoid awkward silences.
My target walked away, maybe sad cause I was ignoring her. I asked her friend (who later I found out to be her twin sister) where she was going, and if I scared her I'll leave, and I began to roll-off (to show I could do just as fine without them). She said no, not at all, she's coming back. Her sister went to get her, and when they came back the target's sister was showering me with IOI's. Not sure what went on when they too were alone, maybe the target wanted her sister to hit on me for her. Target's sister was called by someone and told the target they have to leave now or they'll miss their ride. Target's sister gave me a big hug, and told me "you better call me". Acting indifferent I replied "I don't have your number", and waited for her to come back. She ran back towards me as I pulled out my phone and handed it to her, just to then take it away from her (DHV by taking something out of her hands), and handed her my other phone and told her "that was my business line, this is my personal phone" (DHV by appearing to be a super busy person).
Friday, November 19, 2010
In field training, day 1
Dictionary:
¬DHV (Display of Higher Value)- Verbal and Non-verbal communication that let your target know you're "hot stuff".
¬Target- The woman you are going after.
¬Set- Commonly known as a two set, three set, etc....; a set of women in which your target happens to be in.
¬Wing- Man or woman you take with you to the bars to increase your DHV.
¬IOI (Indicator of Interest)- When target communicates interest in PUA. Target begins to ask personal questions about you, hugs you, smiles at you from across the room etc, or plays with her hair while looking at you.
¬Run Off- Appearing as if you have to go somewhere else. Done by looking at your watch (not too much of this), talking over your shoulder, giving FLC's, and taking a short step from time to time as if you had to leave.
¬FLC (False Time Constraint)- Telling a false statement to give the illusion of the PUA having to leave, and not having much time to socialize. This is one of the PUA's best tools, due to its nature of being a great DHV.
¬3 Second Rule- PUA MUST approach target within this time frame to reduce approach anxiety and being the "creepy staring guy".
¬Canned Openers- Memorized conversation starter PUA must use in order to show DHV's and open sets in a non-threatening way.
¬Kino- Physical contact between PUA and other women. Should be used ONLY as a DHV.
¬Road Blocks- The friends of the target that will look for an excuse to get rid of you, or to take her away from you.
Rules to follow when opening sets:
¬Always have a smile for the first 2 or 3 seconds of opening the set. This makes you look less threatening and brings everyone to comfort.
¬Always approach at an angle. If you approach directly head-on the set and the target will feel threatened and uncomfortable.
¬Always speak over your shoulder, unless there is a table between you two. It's incredibly awkward to approach a stranger just to be on their face as if you were to fight each other.
¬Memorize all your openers, and have DHV stories ready for every situation; music, politics, sports, vacations etc...
¬Engage everybody in the set in the conversation. This eliminates road blocks, and increases your social value.
¬Ignore your target the whole time. And when target wants to jump into the conversation give her neg about her not having manners or something similar.
¬Learn how to read body language. If your target or your set look bored, you must leave immediately to avoid further losing social value. Do this by going back to your original FTC and giving a smile as you leave.
¬DHV (Display of Higher Value)- Verbal and Non-verbal communication that let your target know you're "hot stuff".
¬Target- The woman you are going after.
¬Set- Commonly known as a two set, three set, etc....; a set of women in which your target happens to be in.
¬Wing- Man or woman you take with you to the bars to increase your DHV.
¬IOI (Indicator of Interest)- When target communicates interest in PUA. Target begins to ask personal questions about you, hugs you, smiles at you from across the room etc, or plays with her hair while looking at you.
¬Run Off- Appearing as if you have to go somewhere else. Done by looking at your watch (not too much of this), talking over your shoulder, giving FLC's, and taking a short step from time to time as if you had to leave.
¬FLC (False Time Constraint)- Telling a false statement to give the illusion of the PUA having to leave, and not having much time to socialize. This is one of the PUA's best tools, due to its nature of being a great DHV.
¬3 Second Rule- PUA MUST approach target within this time frame to reduce approach anxiety and being the "creepy staring guy".
¬Canned Openers- Memorized conversation starter PUA must use in order to show DHV's and open sets in a non-threatening way.
¬Kino- Physical contact between PUA and other women. Should be used ONLY as a DHV.
¬Road Blocks- The friends of the target that will look for an excuse to get rid of you, or to take her away from you.
Rules to follow when opening sets:
¬Always have a smile for the first 2 or 3 seconds of opening the set. This makes you look less threatening and brings everyone to comfort.
¬Always approach at an angle. If you approach directly head-on the set and the target will feel threatened and uncomfortable.
¬Always speak over your shoulder, unless there is a table between you two. It's incredibly awkward to approach a stranger just to be on their face as if you were to fight each other.
¬Memorize all your openers, and have DHV stories ready for every situation; music, politics, sports, vacations etc...
¬Engage everybody in the set in the conversation. This eliminates road blocks, and increases your social value.
¬Ignore your target the whole time. And when target wants to jump into the conversation give her neg about her not having manners or something similar.
¬Learn how to read body language. If your target or your set look bored, you must leave immediately to avoid further losing social value. Do this by going back to your original FTC and giving a smile as you leave.
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